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“Forever Never Lasts”

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You say you’re together forever, but forever never lasts.
You end up movin on, and the things you used to say was just a thing in the past.

Love is a strong word, so don’t use it if you truly don’t mean it.
Sometimes the more you say, “I love you,” the relationship will most likely end quick.

People make themselves believe they know what they’re talking about, but they don’t.
They act like they would make any sacrifice, but deep down inside they won’t.

Some aren’t meant to be.
They don’t understand that, it’s so hard to recognize and see.

I learned some relationships are life lessons.
You think that little angel is some kind of perfect blessin; no one’s perfect, so ask if she has any confessions.

Someone real wouldn’t go behind your back, but they don’t care about that they just worried about where all the fun is at.

It’s the 21st century people don’t care about other’s feelings anymore.
For all you know, the person you call your girlfriend can be some kind of sleazy whore.

Be sure you don’t mix love with lust.
You gotta be careful who you spill your feelings for, you must.

You do something wrong, they don’t like, they wanna argue and fight.
But once they do something wrong and crazy, it’s alright.

The more you say you’re going to be together forever, it might not last.
So be careful who you say ‘Love’ to and don’t rush things so fast.

A successful relationship begins with just being friends.

You never know you might begin a relationship, love might expand, learn to be committed and you’ll never end.

I’m not trying to control your life I’m just sayin’.
If you truly feel this message I’m bringin’ to you, think about it…

Sitting, listening to music, thinking about my past made me write Forever Never Lasts.

 

 

“Lifetime of Pain”

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At one point in time,

it was set in my mind

That I’d one day find,

that Prince Charming of mine!

He would be, the man on the court

Excelling in sports,

Witty and tall

In high school, I found out

What most boys were about

And though sex was their game

I choose to abstain!

If you’ve had sex before

It’s not too late to regain

Because one night of pleasure

Is not worth a lifetime of pain

When the Odds are Against You

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When the Odds are Against You”

When all is lost and hope has fled
When fear is strong and strength is dead
When love and joy abandon you
When mental anguish grows in you

When the last of efforts fail to save
When your fate is ill, your mind enslaved
And when your head hangs low in misery
This is when you’ll find the key

A single ember from deep within
Burns hotter and hotter, as flames begin
The fire of truth will light the way
And help you fight, this lonely day

The battle is long, the struggle is rough
Never regret not giving enough
For when we offer our very best.
Our very soul is put to the test.

Stand tall and true and you’ll prevail
Just hold on tight and never bail
You will survive if you don’t quit
Victory is there, if you reach for it

One day in the future, you will look to the past.
And know you had what it takes to last
So never give up and good things will come.
Not just honor and pride, but a job well done.

Insights from High School Students

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Insights from High School Students

Many high school students have chosen to abstain from participating in risky behaviors. Here are quotes from real high school students who are currently choosing abstinence!

Quotes to Live by:

  • “Abstinence is the best choice”
  • “Kids shouldn’t be having sex until after they are married”
  • “You can regain abstinence”
  • “I believe abstinence is a good way to prevent pregnancy and STIs. I feel I am not old enough, physically and emotionally, for a sexual relationship.”
  • “Abstinence is the best way to go”
  • “I’ve always agreed with abstinence, but I love hearing other people who have chosen abstinence because it helps me. A lot of older boys like juniors and seniors are always putting on an act and trying to get me to do sexual things. Hearing other people who have chosen abstinence helps me know I’m doing the right thing with saying no.”
  • “Being abstinent can give you more opportunities, especially during teen and young adult years.”
  • “It is important to make healthy, smart decisions, especially as a teen, to have a successful future.”
  • “Drugs and alcohol are bad for you and are addictive.”
  • “Drugs can harm you in the long run”
  • “My choices about drugs and alcohol can have a big impact on me and on other people.”
  • “I am not going to let people pressure me to do something I don’t want to do.”
  • “Stay assertive and say no when someone offers alcohol or drugs.”
  • “Stay around positive friends.”

Sometimes life has trauma and drama

“If I say Yes”

Boy: Baby let’s talk. Let’s talk about sex. We’ve been together two years so I know you won’t reject. We’re gonna’ get married anyway, so why are we waitin’? Come on, let’s just do this cuz I’m getting impatient. I’ll make your first time special if we do. I swear you won’t regret. Just put ‘ya mind to it. Say yes and we’ll make love forever. Got me waitin’ two years? We shouldn’t be together. But like I said I love you, and if we do it, I’ll love you more. We’re gonna’ die anyway. What’s the point of being pure?

Girl: If you love me, then why can’t we wait? My virginity is the only thing I own next to my name. I know if we do it, things will change. You’ll have what you want and I’ll be wondering why things aren’t the same. Nine minutes of pleasure ain’t worth raising no baby. I guess you thought I was dumb, so you had permission to play me. Stomach with a bump, walk around back bent, just got kicked out the house now I gotta’ pay rent! Maybe I won’t get pregnant, but I’m looking out for myself. All I really want is to be the best, and sex has no part in that look at the pregnancy rates. I don’t want to be a part of that. I love you, but I’m waiting. We’re not married just dating, so put your hormones to the side, because these feelings I won’t hide. But if I say no, I know you’ll go.

Boy: You’re right I will go. Thanks for letting me know. Cuz now that I’m positive I ain’t getting none, our love’s like a bullet, but we don’t have a gun. Our love is pointless, so I gotta’ say goodbye and I know this might hurt, but just let those feelings die. What’s the point of waitin’ if I could be getting some else where. I thought you were it, but sorry you’re not the one. I need a girl that wears tiny skirts, little shirts and does all the dirt. The nasty things that will get me what I want the first night. Not a nasty girl but she’ll please me just right. So why would I stick around waitin’ for you? I can have you and probably another two?!

Girl: I knew you didn’t love me. That’s why we didn’t have sex. I guess I’m supposed to cry but better the truth then living lies. Yea it hurts, but nine months will hurt more. I’d rather my heart be torn to pieces than a baby being born. What about STDs or HIV? I’m sorry, but to me, it’s not worth getting laid. Three years from now we probably not going to be together, you told me you loved me, and our love was forever. But look now, breakin’ up because we can’t have sex. You’re the fool in this one because you were sure I wouldn’t reject. If I would have said yes……

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